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Suicide
Take it seriously – never leave the person alone, do not make any promises, get immediate help - dial 9-1-1 (Emergency) or 9-8-8 (National Suicide & Crisis Lifeline)
2nd
Suicide is the 2nd leading cause of death among young people age 10-14
5,000
5,000 young people die by suicide in the United States each year; 12 per day
1 in 10
More than 1 in 10 children ages 3-17 - living in North Carolina had a diagnosis of depression or anxiety in 2020 – a 49% increase from 2016
What are some situations that could lead someone to consider suicide?
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Past suicide attempts
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Family history of death by suicide
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Has a mental health condition such as depression, anxiety, schizophrenia
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Has a long-term or a disabling terminal illness
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Has money or legal problems
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Has a history of physical, emotional or sexual abuse; or neglect or bullying
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Is socially isolated; lacks support systems
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Lacks access to healthcare, including mental health/substance use treatment
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Holds a cultural or religious belief that suicide is a noble option to resolving a personal dilemma
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Awareness of increased number of local suicides; increase in media coverage of deaths by suicide
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14 Suicide Warning Signs
If you Suspect Someone is Suicidal take it seriously – never leave the person alone, do not make any promises, get immediate help - dial 9-1-1 (Emergency) or 9-8-8 (National Suicide & Crisis Lifeline)

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Threatening to hurt or kill him or herself
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Looking for ways to kill him or herself such as searching online for methods
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Talking or writing about death, dying or suicide
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Feelings of hopelessness
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Rage, anger, aggression, seeking revenge
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Acting recklessly or engaging in risky activities without thinking
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No reason for living, feeling no sense of purpose
8
Feeling trapped – like there is no “way out”
9
Feeling like a burden to others
10
Increased alcohol or drug use
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Withdrawing from friends, family or society
12
Anxiety, agitation, unable to sleep or sleeping all the time
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Dramatic changes in mood
14
Visiting or calling people to say goodbye

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Do you Suspect Someone is Suicidal
If you Suspect Someone is Suicidal take it seriously – never leave the person alone, do not make any promises, get immediate help - dial 9-1-1 (Emergency) or 9-8-8 (National Suicide & Crisis Lifeline)
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Ask directly about their suicidal thoughts; ask if they have a plan.
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Do not avoid using the word “suicide”.
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Ask the question(s) without any negative judgment.
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Examples: “Are you having thoughts of suicide?” or “Are you thinking of killing yourself?”
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Tell the person that you care and want to help.
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Express empathy.
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Clearly state that thoughts of suicide are often associated with a treatable mental disorder – to instill hope.
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Tell the person that thoughts of suicide are common and do not have to be acted on.
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Keep the person – and yourself – safe.
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Has the person been using alcohol or drugs? Such use can make a person more susceptible to acting on impulse and put the person – and you – in danger.
NOTE: If you appear confident in the face of someone in crisis and having thoughts of suicide, this can be reassuring for the person who is suicidal.
Emergency
Dial 9-1-1 - 24/7
Mobile Crisis Management Services
866-275-9552 - 24/7
Partners Health Management Crisis Line
833-353-2093 - 24/7
The Trevor Project suicide helpline
For LGBTQ youth,
ages 13-24
Dial 1-866-488-7386 or
Text 678-678 – 24/7